20 March 2012

37 things I BELIEVE....

I believe...

1. Easter has the best candy
2. Regina Sparks is the devil
3. Sign language is more convenient than spoken language
4. Everyone's lives are exciting on Facebook
5. Ducks are the cutest
6. Family are the best friends
7. Disney movies are classic
8. Dancing is the best way to get cheered up
9. If you act a certain way it will eventually become a reality
10. Cardis and tights are a staple
11. People believe in trends, not values
12. Magic is disappointing when you know how to do it
13. Time will pass and you'll be fine
14. There is some truth behind every joke
15. You can see dirt come off your hands EVERY time you wash them, you just have to do it good enough
16. If you put C.O. Bigelow Mentha lipgloss on before you go to sleep, it whitens your teeth
17. Music is a type of therapy
18. Diabetes is fun
19. Working out makes you feel accomplished and increases your self esteem
20. 13 lbs. of direct pressure can break a collar bone
21. If you need friends, go serve someone
22. Think of your hardest trial...everyone has one, so be nice
23. Honking results in nothing but anger
24. There's someone out there for everyone
25. When people cut you off, they have a valid reason
26. Everybody is too concerned with themselves
27. You can tell a lot about a guy from his shoes
28. People lie for no reason
29. I'm the best Muddy Buddy maker in 6 counties
30. Everyone has a lot to say, you just have to get them on the right subject
31. Nick names make people feel special
32. Fuzzy things are gross
33. Summer sales ruins girls' lives
34. Having a girl crush does not make you a lesbian
35. You should not answer the phone while you're sleeping
36. You can find people like you anywhere
37. Head lamps are the best invention since sliced bread

06 March 2012

Being in love with God

So, as some of you may know, Christian Rock is the genre of music that most often plays in my car. I lost my ipod some time ago, so I started listening to the radio. I got sick of stations that played the top 40 over and over and over again, so I'd find myself changing it to a station where I didn't know any of the songs. Then I found this gem of a station...K-Love 95.3. Since I discovered it, it's been on in my car 24/7. I really do love it. It's a christian rock station, and I've learned that christian rock is great.

.....but in some songs they talk about God like they're in love with Him. And it's way weird to me. I have always been kind of weirded out by that. Right? Like it's kind of weird, you're not supposed to be in love with Him.

Then I started reading this book called Blue Like Jazz, by Donald Miller (recommended by my good friend Heath). It's a nonreligious book about christian spirituality. And last night I was reading it and there was a paragraph that kind of shed some light on the "being in love with God" idea. Here it is:

"Our 'behavior' will not be changed long with self-discipline, but fall in love and a human will accomplish what he never thought possible. That laziest of men will swim the English channel to win his woman. I think what Rick said is worth repeating that by accepting God's love for us, we fall in love with him, and only then do we have the fuel we need to obey."

So, I still don't think we should be in love with God. But I think what this concept is saying is that being in love gives us motivation like nothing else can. When we have a love like that for God, our obedience and desire to be righteous is sustained much longer and we will passionately obey Him.

12 December 2011

Jumping Ladders

So....apparently The Ladder Theory is something everyone knows about. I had never heard about it tonight, but I just think it's so great. Annnnddd I never blog, so maybe it's a good thing to blog about?

So the ladder theory is about how guys and girls are attracted to each other. Guys have one ladder, and girls have two ladders.

The girls' have a 'potential' ladder and a 'friend' ladder.
Guys have one ladder, simply put- a 'girls they would have sex with' ladder.

When a girl first meets a guy, they are immediately placed on either the 'friend' or 'potential' ladder. This sucks for most guys, because they don't know what ladder they're placed on. And girls are just as willing to invest time into their friend ladder as they are their potential ladder, so sometimes it's hard to figure out which ladder you're on.

Guys have one ladder, the higher a girl is on this ladder, the more they want to have a relationship with her and the more time they invest in her. The lower, the less attracted they are to her, and the less attention she gets.

Now when I heard this theory I thought it was so great a did a little research on it. Most of the sites I went to said guys can never switch from one ladder to the other, but I totally think they can they can. Way easily, even on a daily basis. I think girls are constantly changing which ladder they put guys on. I also think they can start out on the friend ladder and get so high the ladders eventually meet, or they can start out as the same ladder, and grow apart so they're just on the friend ladder.

Isn't that just so great?? I love that theory! Also, it explains why every girl in this video below says girls and guys can be just friends.








24 November 2011

hate

I hate blogging. I suck at making stuff cute. The end.

19 September 2011

Industrial Design (...or crafts)

So I've been majorly into crafts lately. But like, not just crafts with paper and stuff. Big, building type crafts. Me and Lauren Cole have been into Industrial Design lately. (Hopefully that is her new major!) It's soooo fun. I love doing stuff like this. We just moved in together and we've really transformed our apartment! Most of the things we've hung up have been made by us. Here are the things we've done so far, but we're not quite done yet!

These first five wood projects I made at the beginning of the summer. I just mod podged paper onto different things.



I gave this to my mama for Mother's Day. It was special because she's a little bit
 homeless right now, so she liked it.

This one and the duck frame are hanging above my kitchen sink in my apartment!
Obsessed with ducks :) Photography by Lance IsTough
These next ones are the crafts we've been doing to decorate our apartment! I'm so proud of them!
I bought 4 kitchen chairs from DI and mod podged the seats with fabric to make them cute!

Frame we built to staple fabric over it to make it look like canvas. 

Finished product of the wood frame fabric canvas we made! It's so beautiful!

This is a 4'x6' chalk board I MADE. I bought a thin board, primed it, and painted it several times with chalkboard paint. Sanded it a few times, and painted it again. And hung it up! So hardcore. 

Here is our kitchen with the chairs and fabric frame!

This is our skeeball machine Lauren's grandma is letting us use! I put it together :)

Lauren made these cute tissue paper flowers to go above our TV!
Our apartment is the cutest. Really. We're going to have lots of little food parties. I'm so excited for it! But we have one more project we're going to do. 

This flower is made out of toilet paper rolls! We have a big empty wall and we're going to make a HUGE one! It's going to be so awesome. I've started collecting the toilet paper rolls, but I need a lot. So start keeping yours for me!

I'm really so proud of our apartment. I absolutely love it. I also love living with Lauren. It's sooo much fun!

05 July 2011

"Obruni, bye-bye"

Hello hello!!!

I have been LOVING this past week! Seriously so great.
So this last week was the sports competition all week. It was really fun. It was a REALLY big deal. The first day they had a big band and all these vendors came to sell food and there were SOO many people there! (mostly deaf kids). But it was really fun for the kids. You can tell it's their big event they look forward to all year long. The sports we were really to watch. They competed in tennis (ping-pong), netball (like basketball), volleyball, football (soccer), and track. I don't remember who took first in all the individual events, but Mampong (my school) took first overall. I was so proud of them and you could tell it was a really big self-esteem booster for the kids.
 The big set up. The field on the right is their soccer field and track.

We made signs to cheer on the students
Boys volley ball
 Girls netball

 All the athletes

One of the girls ran a marathon in this. All the athletes play in bare feet, flip flops, or some random pair or water shoes.


OKAY. I AM IN LOVE. with a student. He's only 18. I know...but it's okay. Seriously. His name is Kawbena and he has the MOST beautiful smile I've ever seen. I really haven't even talked to him that much because he's just so beautiful I don't even know what to say to him. I wish I could upload a picture of him on here. I really can act more normal around guys in America I like, but I really don't even know how to talk to him. All the younger kids think it's funny to run get him and say I'm calling him, and then he'll come over and be like "what?" and I'll just be like hahahaha and awkwardly smile because I don't know what to say and he's so beautifully intimidating. I'm just in love with him. That's all.
KWABENA!!!!!!


Friday, July 1st, was a holiday here called Republican Day. We didn't have school that day, so in the morning we played soccer at the school. It was the girls soccer team against all the obrunis (white people). It was really fun! It made me want to play soccer. I loved it. That night we went to this HUGE street party at this club call Level 400. There were SOOOOO many people there. It was so fun. Black people and dancing...right up my alley. That is my definition of fun, so you know I had a blast. That was probably one of my favorite days on the trip.
Soccer team picture
Level 400. This is barely any of the people there.

Our crew at Level 400


We went to church in Madina again, and had to interpret for Marco. Interpreting is sooo hard. I'm so bad at it. I had to interpret in Sunday school and they were talking about Peter and Judas and Gethsemane...and it was just so hard! It makes church long and frustrating. I'm excited to go back to America where I can just sit through church and listen, and not have to interpret. But Marco is the sweetest man alive. His wife Hannah made us pancakes on Saturday night and they were SOOO good. They were more like crepes, but soaked in grease. I am gaining so much weight here. I eat SO much food, and it's all deep fried, I swear. Anyways, the pancakes were delicious. BUT also, I go running at least 4 times a week. And I do some other workouts. And I haven't missed a day of scripture reading the entire time I've been here! My habits here are so good! I wish it would be this easy at home.
Church!

Marco!

BEST PANCAKES EVER


Today was the best day ever. We have these friends at the wood district named Sammuel and Nicholas that are brothers. Today we skipped school and they taught us how to make something out of wood. I made a little bowl. It was really fun to make, but it literally took me from 10-3 to make it. It's SOOO time consuming. And mine looks like crap compared to theirs. So I have a new appreciation for all the souvenirs I'm bringing everyone home.
My beautiful bowl!

Sammuel and Nicholas. Two of the buffest people I've ever met.

Celebrating my birthday Wood District style

It's been really rainy here lately, and no, I'm not getting very tan. I did the first couple weeks, but it's been super overcast. I do have a flip flop tan line and a NASTY farmers tan. Also, EVERYTHING is growing mold on it. I don't know why all the sudden it's happening, but EVERYTHING. Whatever, I'm in africa. I don't care.

Well I only have like 2 seconds left on my internet card! I'm coming home in 6 days!!! WOOOO
PS my birthday was really good.

PPS All the little kids always yell "obruni, bye bye!" when I'm running in the morning. So that's what I named this blog. I love you all!
Kids in the street

27 June 2011

"Please, I am coming."


The title of this blog is what everyone says here in Ghana when they mean like "wait a second" or "hold on". I I've started to say it. think I might have already said that in my blog, but I thought it was appropriate for this blog because, I am soon coming home.

So, this week has been so fantastic! Well, just this weekend. BEST WEEKEND YET. Seriously. So, Katie went to high school with this girl who came to Ghana on a  humanitarian trip, fell in love with a Ghanaian and after a series of events, came back and married him. So now, while waiting for his visa to process, they are still living in Ghana. There are a lot more details to the story, but I don’t super feel like typing those right now, but really, it’s just as crazy as it sounds. ANYWAYS, Katie, Brittney, and I went and visited her this weekend. It was SOOOO fun. They live in a town called Hohoe, and it took us about 5 ½ hours to get there from Mampong. But that wasn’t just driving time, that was like…transferring cars, waiting for tro-tros, you know, the works..So it was probably like a 4 ½ hour drive. Anyways we left Friday morning, so we got there Friday afternoon. We haven’t been in a typical Ghanaian home yet, so we were pretty excited to see what kind of house they live in, but I don’t think Paul’s house was really ‘typical’. It’s really nice for Ghanaian standards. Annie and Paul live with his parents, and his parents are the NICEST human beings ever. So is Paul. Seriously, Paul and Annie’s relationship makes me want to marry a Ghanaian. She definitely chose the right Ghanaian to marry. 

Anyways, when we arrived Friday afternoon, they had and loaf of bread and apple juice for us. It was divine. Seriously. Then after getting acquainted with them, Paul drove us in his car to a deaf school in Hohoe (ho-hoy). We just talked to the Headmaster for a minute, then went and talked to the kids. It was pretty fun. Then we went to Annie’s orphanage. When she originally volunteered here two years ago, she came to this orphanage, and now because she’s living here, she goes there everyday. It was really fun just because I love kids, but it was also very sad. The conditions were pretty awful. It was very eye opening. At the orphanage there were 15 girls and 30 boys. All 15 girls share one room, and the boys have two rooms. All of their English was AMAZING. They have a ton of volunteers constantly coming and going, so they know English and not their local dialect (which is Ewe). Also, they are very malnourished, so you’ll see a baby who looks like she can’t be older than 2, and she’ll be 5. I took a video of this baby…seriously looks like he’s 2 years old, dribbling a basketball like a pro. He’s really 4 years old, which is still impressive. After the orphanage we went and ate dinner, which Paul’s mom, Mary, made. She is a really good cook. I didn’t love the dinner because it had fish in it, but it was good. Then we just chilled with Paul and Annie. We watched a movie on Annie’s macbook, which is was I have wanted to do this WHOLE time, so it was super fun! 

Saturday we woke up and they took us to the biggest waterfall in western Africa called Wli (Ve-lee) Waterfall. It was really cool. And huge. Paul bought us mangoes to eat; he really is just the sweetest guy ever. Also, Paul knows EVERYONE. And if they don’t know Paul, they know Paul’s dad. Annie told us they are pretty well-off. His dad is a regional accountant and owns some farms, and Paul owned a taxi business, but just sold it a couple weeks ago. Then we went back to the orphanage, called Eugemont, and played with the kids more. We tried to play cards with them, but it was just really chaotic. All the babies were crying. After the orphanage was the BEST part!!!!! We went to the monkey sanctuary!!!!!!! It was one of the coolest things EVER! So at a typical monkey sanctuary you go pay an entrance fee, then the park people will take you to wherever the monkeys are that day, and you can feed them. When we went there, we pulled up right next to the front office and the monkeys were right there!! There was a group of about 80 monkeys just jumping around EVERYWHERE. It was SO cool. So after we paid, the woman working there gave us a banana to feed the monkeys with. You hold it out and like 3 or 4 monkeys will climb up your body and on your arm to eat it out of your hand. They really are just jumping everywhere, on your head, on your arms, climbing up your legs. It was seriously so cool. We were afraid it would hurt, but they just have little paws, no nails, so it didn’t hurt at all, but they were really dirty. So afterward my arm was covered in dirt. I would drive the 5 hours again JUST to go to the monkey sanctuary. SO worth it. 

After that, Paul drove us back to Hohoe (the drive was about 45 minutes from Paul’s house) and we made homemade banana bread. It was SOOOO good. We went to the market where they have all the cooking supplies for sale. It’s really interesting how it is set up. Everything is in plastic bags. They have big bags for flour and sugar and stuff, and tiny little bags with only like a couple tablespoons for spices and baking powder and things you only need a little bit of. It was really cool. So we bought all the ingredients we need and went back to Annie’s house and just made it in a pot. We didn’t have measuring cups or anything; it was definitely cooking ‘African style’. But it was SOOOOO good. AMAZING. Also when we got home, there were FIVE PINEAPPLES, about 45 BANANAS, 3 APPLES, and 9 DRINKS in our room as a gift from Paul’s dad. What did I tell you…the NICEST people ever.  That night we just hung out, played cards and stuff. I really love them so much.
On Sunday we drove to Ho to go to church. It is almost 2 hours away from Hohoe, but it is the closest LDS church to Annie and Paul. Paul owns a car, and it was SO nice to have him drive us everywhere. It was so nice of them, and saved us TONS of money. Church was…interesting. At the other wards we’ve been to I’ve felt right at home, and the church building has been really similar to an American church building, but this ward was just renting out the building, so it wasn’t really a typical church building. And it was just really chaotic. Sacrament meeting was good, but I felt like no one took Sunday school or Relief Society seriously. In Relief Society the lesson was on the Law or Chastity, but basically the whole time they debated about whether you should bathe with kids over 6 years old or not. Just a really big tangent and not at all related the point. Then Paul and Annie drove us to the tro-tro station. It was really sad to say goodbye. I wish we could have stayed longer, or been able to visit them twice. I love Annie so much. She is so strong and independent. And Paul is just the greatest person ever.

This week at school is a sports tournament. School is cancelled Tues-Thurs and 2 other deaf schools come to our school to play sports. They are competing in soccer, volley ball, track, ping pong, and net ball. Today all day at school we just cleaned the grounds around the school. I’m super excited to watch them. Friday (July 1st) is a holiday here, so school is cancelled. We’ve seen signs for tons of parties and celebrations going on, so it should be good. So basically since there is no school this week, we only have one more week with the kids. I’m getting really sad. I love these kids.

My birthday is in one week, and we get home in two weeks! Be sure to send me a text on my birthday so I can feel loved when I get home! I love you all!